Marriage is such a beautiful thing... but more and more people are doing it for all the wrong reasons.. which is such a pity if you think about it.. I have been dreaming about my wedding since I was a little girl... I know EXACTLY what everything is gonna look like, and Im sure all women had that same dream as little girls.. but each day you hear about people who havent even been married for a year, then they get caught cheating... marriage is supposed to be sacred... If you marry somebody, you have made a commitment to stay loyal to that person... If you feel that you HAVE to cheat atleast do it before you get married, to avoid causing too much pain afterwards... you shouldnt actually cheat at all, but yeah, were only human... Most people say that they cheated, because they just wanted to make sure that they were making the right decision before they "tied the knot" Let me get one thing straight here... The moment you say "yes, I will marry you" you have made the right decision... you have decided that you love that person, and only want to be with him/her for the rest of your life... If you had doubt, you shouldve said, "lemme think about it".... but you said "yes" ok... kapish.... am I getting through to you here....?? If it were to happen that you got married one day, and you caught your spouse cheating... what would you do?
Thursday, November 23, 2006
Till Cheating do us part....
Marriage is such a beautiful thing... but more and more people are doing it for all the wrong reasons.. which is such a pity if you think about it.. I have been dreaming about my wedding since I was a little girl... I know EXACTLY what everything is gonna look like, and Im sure all women had that same dream as little girls.. but each day you hear about people who havent even been married for a year, then they get caught cheating... marriage is supposed to be sacred... If you marry somebody, you have made a commitment to stay loyal to that person... If you feel that you HAVE to cheat atleast do it before you get married, to avoid causing too much pain afterwards... you shouldnt actually cheat at all, but yeah, were only human... Most people say that they cheated, because they just wanted to make sure that they were making the right decision before they "tied the knot" Let me get one thing straight here... The moment you say "yes, I will marry you" you have made the right decision... you have decided that you love that person, and only want to be with him/her for the rest of your life... If you had doubt, you shouldve said, "lemme think about it".... but you said "yes" ok... kapish.... am I getting through to you here....?? If it were to happen that you got married one day, and you caught your spouse cheating... what would you do?
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Cut his dick off, and give it to the woman he is enjoying the moment with.( I am not blinking because I ain't joking)
Someone dear to my heart went trough this, it changes you completely.
It is not worth it!!!!!!!!
I have no problem with Drizzy's idea.
stapel his tools to the bonet of his car before you burn them both to the ground
Someone should write a blog about what cheating it with the internet and phone sex and stuff nower days
Emotional cheating is just as bad, had a BF one's got nakid pics of his one "friend" on his phone, needless to say I left him so fast his head is still spinning....do not try that shit with me...cheating is cheating in any meduim in any language!!!!!....I know we all flirt sometimes, but watch out......it gets ungly so fast!!
Never say never!! but if he does he'll die so so slowly he'll beg to end his life.
cement his thingetjie in his mouth and let him starve to death!!
and if she does it... well he drove her to it!!
WHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! RIGHT ON CAT!!!
Cheating...
Now Cat you are so unfair... It's not always the man thats bad, Some times the are just siduced and he just give in... But yeah I know its always the mans fault... hehe... You chicks...
Drizzy so what do we cut OFF??
Grem your statement just fuels the fact that men have no back bone.
if you truely love a person the one doing the seducing wont have the opurtunity to get her clutches in
Her boobs...ag grem ek is 'n meisie so ek kan net uit my oogpunt skryf!!! Niemand hier het gese net mans cheat nie en Cat het gegrap....
Hahahahahahahahaha! poor naps.
whahaha...maybe she is a gay magnet...hihihi....jou chick sal jou nie cheat nie naps.....daar is net een sexy bitch soos jy!!!;-)..Ok my BF is my sexy bitch..maar dis 'n ander storie....hihihi
just a joke mmmm...ok it was a joke. but i have seen too many men just taking their woman for granted and treat them like a maid. no wonder when a nice man comes along their tend to have a wondering eye.
most woman have an afair with a normal looking guy - not a hunk. because they treat the woman special.
the moral of the story is treat each other with respect and special care and nobody will visit over the fence.
I do agree that it's equally bad of either partner to cheat - hell, if someone I really devoted my life to cheated on me I don't know how'd I've live with myself - but I do agree with Cat a little bit. Women tend to put more emotional energy into relationships - they try to look after the family, make their man happy and give him attention. Men tend to think "I'm married to you, aren't I?" is a good-enough answer to "do you love me?". Bullshit - if you're lazy, you want life simple and you don't want to make the effort, you're not gonna follow you ideals that fulfil you - doesn't mean she won't. Women want more than just living together, they want emotional caring, attention & connection. You don't give it, you fly. Coz you can feed a failing erection Viagra, but once a heart dies, it's a lot harder to resuscitate.
Sorry for the melodrama - going through a tough time.
I'm firmly of the opinion that when you get married...you stick with that person...or you get a divorce...there's no such thing as 'my wife/husband doesn't understand me...so i'm justified in cheating...'...
You made your [marital] bed and therefore you should lie in it...
Once you've committed, and you have that ring on your finger, there's one person and one person only.
If I caught my husband cheating...I'd divorce him and take him to the cleaners for every cent he has....leave him broke and without me...I'd make him as miserable as I possibly could.
appparently men cheat coz they can, women cheat to get out of the relationship and men will very seldom leave their wives for their mistresses...
divorce sux! it fucks everyone involved up, but you learn to depend on yourself financially, emotionally and physically.
only you can make yourself happy so ya.. if you're in a messy relationship.. get out!
Messy's not always a bad thing..
Ok, I just discovered your blog so I'm a little behind, but I wanna say that I have been married for nearly 10 months now and while marriage isnt all smooth sailing, and we have our tough times I can say this: my worst days of marriage are better than my best days of singleness. Tamaryn is 100% correct. Marriage and love in general is a CHOICE. It does not and cannot rely on emotion or horniness.It is a decision. And I ADORE being married. Went to a marriage enrichment weekend last weekend and SAM: I can promise you that there are still plenty people who hold a high and sacred view of marriage. I'm glad you're one of them. :)
Thanks caz, thanks for checking out my blog.
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