This crazy looking chickita pictured above is none other than my booh.... The middle sister - Im the youngest. As most of the people that know me knows, I love both my sisters TOO MUCH, and they mean the world to me, and I hate having fights with them.... that doesnt mean we dont fight however... Me and booh were spending some quality time together yesterday, and then she piped up how mad she was at me, for not wanting her to be my "Maid of Honour" at my wedding, (When that eventually happens) See, when we were younger, we always promised eachother that wed be the maid of honour at either ones weddings.... even when we played barbies with our friends, and one of us got married... that was always the case... but sadly, as happens in most cases, people grow up, and in most cases their opinions differ in most things... when we were younger we were almost like twins, and she was my best friend.. and we always tried to look the same.... but I think that stopped when she started experimenting so much with her hair....lol.... I love her for her individuality, but the thing is, as "loud" as her hair looks, multiply her personality tenfold.... Shes a wild child... And I guess, I always pictured my wedding as a kind of fairytale, I want everything perfect... Not included in those dreams, was a loud, wild (like i know her, probably tipsy from wine while walking down the aisle with me) punk chick... and she'd probably flirt with all the hot guys while walking down the aisle too... And I know I must sound really self centred for saying this, but my wedding is MY day..... I dont want to share it with somebody who'll pinch me on the ass while saying my vows (and she WILL do that!!) It just hurts coz I love her so much, and I reaaaaaaly want her there next to me... Ive learnt so much from her.... What do you guys think? Should I risk it?
Friday, February 23, 2007
Sisterly Love......
This crazy looking chickita pictured above is none other than my booh.... The middle sister - Im the youngest. As most of the people that know me knows, I love both my sisters TOO MUCH, and they mean the world to me, and I hate having fights with them.... that doesnt mean we dont fight however... Me and booh were spending some quality time together yesterday, and then she piped up how mad she was at me, for not wanting her to be my "Maid of Honour" at my wedding, (When that eventually happens) See, when we were younger, we always promised eachother that wed be the maid of honour at either ones weddings.... even when we played barbies with our friends, and one of us got married... that was always the case... but sadly, as happens in most cases, people grow up, and in most cases their opinions differ in most things... when we were younger we were almost like twins, and she was my best friend.. and we always tried to look the same.... but I think that stopped when she started experimenting so much with her hair....lol.... I love her for her individuality, but the thing is, as "loud" as her hair looks, multiply her personality tenfold.... Shes a wild child... And I guess, I always pictured my wedding as a kind of fairytale, I want everything perfect... Not included in those dreams, was a loud, wild (like i know her, probably tipsy from wine while walking down the aisle with me) punk chick... and she'd probably flirt with all the hot guys while walking down the aisle too... And I know I must sound really self centred for saying this, but my wedding is MY day..... I dont want to share it with somebody who'll pinch me on the ass while saying my vows (and she WILL do that!!) It just hurts coz I love her so much, and I reaaaaaaly want her there next to me... Ive learnt so much from her.... What do you guys think? Should I risk it?
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When she pinches you ... I want it on camera.
Will almost be something like THE WEDDING CRASHERS when they say the vows to each other and het sister starts laughing
Hillarious
ja risk it. weddings should be a fun day, not all stiff. the best weddings i have been to have been the crazy fun ones, and not the dull same-old same-old, you know?
@ stiffla - oh itll be on camera, and right after the pinching there'll be a few bitch claps going around. lol.
@ urk - I know it should be fun.... the reception can be fun afterwards, but not WHILE I'm making a life promise....
I say speak to her first, get everything out in the open and let her know why there is trepidation. She'll understand. Tell her you want her there but you are scared she will do something "out of the norm" and that for you... Just for the one day... you would like it a little different.
Oh, and welcome back btw :-)
whats up with her one boob ??
pumkinEater
@ Anonymous... I think it's kinda nice ;-)
@ phlippy - I have spoken to her about it many times, about why I have changed my mind... she wont change for ANYBODY hun!.... with her its "what you see is what you get" No negotiating whatsoever.
And thanks, its good to be back.
@ pumpkin - shes leaning on her one arm, thats why theres only cleavage on the one side
and @ phlippy again - down boy! lol.
its nice :)
pumkinEater
My gaud I love her hair. I wanted to do just that black with fire red steaks but cant find anybody who can do it so please tel me this is the sisster thats the stylist.
she sounds great. You have to look at it this way......
She is gonna keep things fun
You know... I've been thinking the same thing about my mother. LOL
"Should I let her come to my wedding?". If I let her come... I can see all kinds of disasters coming! She'd flirt with my fiance, make a speech that would embarass me, keep telling me to do «this» or «that», etc. She'd ruin my day... by taking control of it.
But in your case... I'd say, let her come!
I think she would behave cause she would know how special that day was to you. I've always wanted sisters.
i am proably to wrong person to ask because I have no relation ship wiht my sister and she wasn't present at either of my weddings and honestly not invited.
ANyhow I do think your sister to whom you are close would proably behave herself knowing how much the day means to you.
I say risk it...it's your sis! She'll help you relax and have fun if things don't go exactly as planned...
First time at your blog. Like the posts and I got some laughs out of it. I shall return.
Scott
Whats life with out taking chances?? Have her close to as that will mean more to you at the end than a pinch with a I doOOOE.
If Not... Remember I'm here and would love to be it... LOL
Not all weddings are "perfect" and sometimes that's what makes them special. It really awesome that you have such a great bond and it would suck to have that change because of an incident like this. Good luck!!
Have you told her what you want hun? I'd start there...
Sam, oh my god your sister is so beautiful! Yes, have her standing next to you. Take the chance! And please invite me because I want her to flirt with me. Please, please, please with whipped cream on top?
Risk it..relationships are all that matter. A wedding is one day. I've had two of them now.
Think back to other big days in your life. Remember them. Think hard. Do you really remember them? You know the kind of days I'm talking about, the ones which are supposed to be the rites of passage. Now ask yourself about the memories of your sister, your friends, etc. See what I mean?
LOL to the image of her pinching your butt as you are taking your vows! Well, one thing's for sure, if you do have her as your maid of honor, your wedding promises to be a memorable one for all of your guests!
I say, unless you have a best friend who is like a sister, risk it! Of course, I had my twin brother as my "Man of Honor," so I'm not too traditional when it comes to weddings.
@ pumkin - Ill tell her you said so.
@ lee - yeah, the one and only. and, she does keep things fun.
@ algelic - sounds like your mother and my sister would have a ball together. lol.
@ samantha - no, she wouldnt behave... but I guess thats why we love her....
@ dino aka katy - think again. lol
@ claudia - make me RELAX!?!?! lol, you guys obviously didnt understand her, and the way i tried to explain her in the blog, she will be the reason i have a nervous breakdown that day... shes fun to go to other peoples weddings with, like my cousins or whatever, coz then me and her always sit together and snicker at the bridesmaids funny dresses, but this is MY wedding.... you guys dont understand.
@ scott - thanks hun, will have a look at yours too.
@ gremlin - lol! i doooooE.... heeheehee!! you never fail to give me a giggle once a day! tks!
@ erica ap - its not like she NOT going to be at my wedding, she will most probably still be there, but not as the person who should be responsible for half of the stuff that the bride isnt handling.
@ arlene - yeah, we had a chat about it that night AGAIN, then I told her I would do a blog, and find out from my friends what they think, and I swore that I would print her ALL The comments, so she could see what the people say.... "the people vs Lizzy" lol. shes had a laugh about is so far.
@ dan - is it just me, or arent you married or something.... if not.... whip cream away! lol!! but i am SURE youre married.... very sure.....bad dan.... didnt we talk about all the "kissing" youve been doing... now youre getting into whip cream.....Oi!
@ stewart - the freshest memory of her at one of my special days is my "21st" where she got drunk with me before the party, so i could calm my nerves for the speeches.... when she had to go do her speech for me, she walked straight into the microphone with her nose! heeheeeheehee!!!! and i remember everybody calling her "David Bowie"....sigh.... yeah, youre right, those are actually the memories I need to remember....
@ jenni - yeah..... Im starting to change my mind here a bit..... but the hair has to be flat! or well just put like a huge hat or watermelon on her head....lol.
Sam, while i understand your concerns, she is afterall your sister... she loves you and you love her and when the time comes will just have a chat with her about it.
And if she doesnt listen, it certainly would make for an interesting wedding, and its the days that arent perfect (but not disasterous) that are remembered more
It wouldn't be perfect without her though.
I don't get on with my sister at all but I wouldn't have wanted anyone else when I got married.
ok...I'm laughing already. Maybe relax isn't the right word...maybe it'll help take your mind off other things that may not go to plan!! LOL...Stewart's right, the best memories are when things didn't go perfectly!!
Sammy.... Mwah
Ouch. That's mean. :(
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