Friday, March 09, 2007

Qualified Bitch......

What makes a girl a bitch? I know for a fact that I am NOT a bitch.. Im one of the friendliest ppl that'll ever cross your path, but everytime I go out with my girlfriends to clubs, I get stereotyped as the "bitch" Is it coz im not as eager to get into the guys pants as all the other chicks there? Is it coz im simply not amused by a guy that can down a whole beer in 2.4 seconds? Or is it because I dont play dumb so you dont get intimidated? I dont get it? Guys want strong independant girls, but theres a catch - JUST AS THEIR WIVES! before that the girl can be anything... afterwards though, shes not good enough. but if your like I am... then you get dissed for thinking you're better than everybody else? Because you have MORALS? I dont get it... What do guys actually want when they go out and meet new girls? Please tell me? Please?

26 comments:

Marc said...

Lol Sam! Well, what I want when I go out is to have fun with my friends! Most guys as far as I can tell go out to pick up chicks - but the chicks as far as my experience goes - who get picked up in clubs aren't worth the skimpy outfit their pimp bought them! Hehe!

SaM-GiRL said...

hahahahahaha!!! Precisely! But I mean, in these cases, THAT exact guy that took that girl home, wont want to marry her one day... as she will be used goods or whatever!

Unknown said...

What is the difference between a slut and a bitch....

A slut will sleep with every guy at a party. A bitch will sleep with every guy at the party except you...


I guess a guy looks for someone who is going to invite him home with her.
I don't think I'm like that though.

A girl (attractive) offered to get me drink once, I said \, maybe later, I like this song. Which I did. The music is the reason I go out... On a good night, I wont even think about anything else...

buffalodick said...

What do guys want? Depends where you meet them. You probably won't find Mr. Right in a club, but you will find Mr. Right Now!

Her Infinite Cuteness said...

hmmm dont worry sam-girl, i get the bitch thing too.... o and i get told to smile, like im gonna walk around with a big fat stupid grin on my face all the time?!?!
i also dont get it... o well nothing i guess i can do, this is the face i was born with im afraid.

SaM-GiRL said...

@ duzbin - whahahahah! nasty! and respect to you for not shagging the hot ho!

@ buffalodicky - Exactly. Ive never heard of anybody telling their "this is how we met" story and mentioning a club...

@ cuteness - these men are DEMENTED!! LOL. what the f*$k should we smile for? huh? do they walk around smiling the whole day? nooo!

Itsnopicknick said...

I used to get that a lot...then i started sleeping around...NOO I DIDN'T - just kidding. I think it's a defense mechanism...not an attractive one, but guys get turned down a lot...for many they then have to make you feel worthless so they're not alone down there feeling awful.

Erica Ann Putis said...

The question is, "What does a girl want from a guy?" Let's not put this in their ball park... :)

Ann M. said...

My very first boss had a magnet on her desk that said, "You call me a bitch like that's a bad thing." I always thought that made a good point. These guys aren't looking for a nice girl--you know what they want. And if you get called a bitch for not giving it to them...well...how is that a bad thing?

Eventually when they grow up, these will be the same guys begging you for your number.

Samantha said...

According to my Chubbs, he reckons men are looking for the sparks. And big tits :D

Uspekhov said...

Bahh, I know EXACTLY what you mean!

Dino said...

I love when people think I am a bitch . That way I can be as rude as I want to. I don't think I am one but I have been called one plenty of times

Unknown said...

Hay, I've never shagged a ho.

I wouldn't say you wouldn't find Mr right in a club, chances are you probably would, chances are also he's not the guy hitting on you.

I can honestly say, I've never bought a girl a drink. Okay, that doesn't include friends, or people I know, I have been out with "Girl" friends (not girl-friends, and not with the intention of getting into their pants) I have bought them drinks, but never someone I have not met, just met, or met that day...

@Samantha, I completely disagree with you...
I prefer little ones.

One question I have, is why do, not many, girls never approach the guys.
some do, I mean if girls never approached the guys firs I'd probably still be a virgin, but it is the exception. Why is that? I have heard that overseas if the girl wants the guy she will go up to him, why doesn't that happen here?

BionicBuddha said...

Any relationship which is based on the superficial interaction that occurs in a club or bar, is likely not destined for long term success. You are probably much better looking for a soul mate with like minded interests in other places. I'm sure an intetlligent, humourous and beautiful girl like yourself is likely routinely declining men's advances.

Claudia said...

Wow, I get the same thing as herinfinitecuteness- "smile" and my reaction is the same!! LOL..
I just have no patience for idiocy.

ShadowFalcon said...

Sometimes I don't think there is anything wrong with being a bitch cos there is no other way...

Molecular Turtle said...

I think it depends on your age what guys are looking for. At this point (24) I would have to say I would be looking for a strong, interesting independent person. I was the same when I was younger but I new of the type that would try to go straight for the pants. Having morals is always a plus :)

Phlippy said...

I think it changes depending on the guy, and depending on their mood that night. We are not too different to girls in that regard luv

ChewTheCud said...

haha - two genders walk into a bar. They both don't know what they want ;P

SaM-GiRL said...

@ spoon - lol. well i just think its childish, why dont they handle it maturely!?

@ erica - i want a guy to come chat to me when im at a club, dont have anything against it if they do, but talk to me when ur talking, not my boobs! and dont get arrogant when ive made it clear im taken and not interested, whats wrong with making new friends? or are they only there for a shag?

@ ann.m - very true!

@ pickled olives - VIVA LE WOMAN!

@ samantha - lol!! typical!

@ make a mistake - thank you.

@ dino - i dont get called a bitch THAT often.... I once walked past a girl, just WALKED, didnt even look at her, and as i passed i heard her say (under her breath) bitch!! And im normally a softy, got a very small heart, but when that girl called me a bitch, i was on an ego-trip, coz it was like i was a threat to her or something? why else would she call me one for just walking past?

@ duzbin - i heard that overseas (england) girls tend to go to guys, and try and get pregnant so they can sue the poor oke for child support. nasty!

@ bionicbuddha - I have NEVER heard of any relationship that started in a club lasting.

@ claudia - nor do i!

@ shadowfalcon - its the only way to get the message through.

@ molecular turtle - yip, its all about morals. And anyway, how can so many ppl still be sleeping around with hiv aids being such a threat?

@ phlippy - well youre always right, so probably yeah.

@ chewthecud - Does ANYBODY actually know what they want?

Arlene said...

Guys want to be "men". They want to be needed, and they want to conquer. You won't find out what a guy really wants unless you get him away from his friends...makes finding your hubby kinda rough!

Insane Insomniac said...

hang on Sam..first question, what are you wearing when you go out with yoru friends? Second question, where do you go with yoru friends when this happens?

Woodrow said...

Not many men go to clubs. It's mostly boys. Maybe that's why.

Anonymous said...

I say keep up the good work.

Gremlin said...

First thing... I like the NOT there sammy. Thanx hehe

Then, its not impossible to find the right person in a club. My sister met an idioot there. And now he's my heavy...:-( well i she loves him.

I never whent to a club to pick up a girl, yeah i looked but then who dont?

And have to agree, you only get boys at a club.

Why for a bich? Well thats just a way for the boy to help him coupe with the rejection he just got.

Every man wants his wive to be a virgin. But they dont think that its them...

Mwah....

SaM-GiRL said...

Confusing, but ok.