Its the oldest story in the book...Guy meets girl, girl likes guy, girl sleeps with guy, guy leaves girl. It has happened to a few guys too (probably, i wouldnt really know) but im a chick, and im talking from the chick's perspective. Nothing against the good guys out there, i know alot of them, but for the guys that use and abuse!! what the f**k is up with that. Why do guys have to do that to a girl to feel better about themselves? I honestly think that its the saddest, sickest thing to do.. It just show you what kind of man you are.. but the wheel does turn, and it will come back to them (I hope and pray) Im lucky that it hasnt happened to me yet, but to all the girls out there, what doesnt break you, only makes you stronger, viva revenge of the scorned X!!
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Yeah and there are so many users out there. And it makes life harder for the real men, who actaully respect woman as a person and not just a sex toy.
But hell that will never go away so....
P.S. you get some chicks like that to.
yeah, i understand how you say it makes life harder for the real honest men, coz ones a girls been played, shes not gonna open up as easy for the next guy.
True, But you've not been played and also not openning up!
LOL!
Well one will open to the right person, you wont be able to keep your gaurd up.
Speaking as someone who's been hurt & has hurt other people - it's true what you say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Every experience should be used as a source of learning concerning your choice of partner and how to handle a relationship. Once you consider someone worthy of your affection, surrender wholeheartedly. If they abuse that, they're the evil one, not you.
I know we do Juan, thats just a part of life, always wanting something you cant have, or something thats bad for you (damn chocolate) Im sure somewhere, deep down, the guys know that they are hurting girls, but they only realise the full hurt they caused that girl, when they meet somebody that THEY fall madly inlove with, and i think that guilt follows them around everywhere. And yes it is true, sex is much more personal for girls, its something they only share with ppl they love (unless ur a prozzie) and guys do take advantage. I know it doesnt make you feel better, but thats the best way i could try to explain it hun. *mwah.
Hahahahahahahaha…if you want to “open up” to a guy before you really know him, then you can’t blame him for doing what he did. And if it hurts, then your doing it wrong. Life is a game. Some play fair and some cheat or use extra available resources. I understand that some people are hooked on sex like I’m on life. And yes there are bad apples on both sides…if you want to play, play the game and stop complaining if the dice rolls against you. If you think you’re going to make love after 3 weeks…good phucken luck. If you think a guy’s going to be whipped within 6 months to a year…Good…phucken…luck…stupid…stupid woman. I don’t care what he says…There’s no way a straight man will admit it…or show it so soon.
It’s lust, our dear friend lust. The emotion that’s responsible for 60% of all f-ups… single-handedly. If a person can’t distinguish between lust and love then suffer us the result. It goes for woman using a guy for money. If the stupid idiot let it happen, why fight it? You’re a born looser so stop fighting it and go for gold. Anyway, some Afrikaans advice I found interesting.
“Hou jou ding uit gate uit…soos jy jou gat uit dinge hou…” I think that is classic.
More applicable to men but yeah…think about it…if you have any self respect and some brains. I didn’t get it. It was explained to me 4 times. But still a classic.
AND STOP BEGGING…It's pathetic...
Hahahahahahahaha…if you want to “open up” to a guy before you really know him, then you can’t blame him for doing what he did. And if it hurts, then your doing it wrong. Life is a game. Some play fair and some cheat or use extra available resources. I understand that some people are hooked on sex like I’m on life. And yes there are bad apples on both sides…if you want to play, play the game and stop complaining if the dice rolls against you. If you think you’re going to make love after 3 weeks…good phucken luck. If you think a guy’s going to be whipped within 6 months to a year…Good…phucken…luck…stupid…stupid woman. I don’t care what he says…There’s no way a straight man will admit it…or show it so soon.
It’s lust, our dear friend lust. The emotion that’s responsible for 60% of all f-ups… single-handedly. If a person can’t distinguish between lust and love then suffer us the result. It goes for woman using a guy for money. If the stupid idiot let it happen, why fight it? You’re a born looser so stop fighting it and go for gold. Anyway, some Afrikaans advice I found interesting.
“Hou jou ding uit gate uit…soos jy jou gat uit dinge hou…” I think that's a classic.
More applicable to men but yeah…think about it…if you have any self respect and some brains. I didn’t get it. It was explained to me 4 times. But still a classic.
AND STOP BEGGING…It's pathetic...
DEAREST SWEETEST MOST CLEVER MARRA
THANKS FOR THAT!!!! YAAAAAAAWN*
Say the child to a father...I know...I know...that's a good girl. Favors later please.
but hun...I'm not your daddy? :-)
Marra, u talk alot of sense, but if I remember correctly, you met your previous girly a few weeks ago, and every single day you go on about how much you love her.. yet in your comment you state that its impossible to get a guy whipped within 6 months to a year? Are you not a guy then, or is somebody seriously pussy whipped *ka-tssssssssss
Hahahahahaha...I’ll be careful of detailing personal conversations my butterfly. If you can remember correctly, I have a memory of an elephant; it’s no co-incidence that I look as fugly as one. Please read the comment again. For your own sake read it again.
Hahahahahahaha…Hmmmm I seem to think there’s a difference between “in love” and “love”. If the word “love” has been used and not “in love”, I beg your forgiveness Sam. Rookie that I am.
Which brings me back to the first part of this blog. I have a lot of info on JM, Debbie, Tash and you. Please be careful of using personal conversations. I have a lot on your gay friends too. All I ask is think about it, and keep my woman out of this. And thank you for your blog.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, skuus marra... mwah mwah. Everybody knows everything about me anyway skattie. but feel free.
Hmmmmmm...so you lied then. On a lot. Hahahahahaha...thats my mistake. Well then better to know a bit late then never know at all. I guess that's the way a cookie crumbles. :-) And I hope this opens up the eyes of a fellow blogger. The poor soul.
Have a good weekend and my name is Marra...I asked what I asked...Out of respect.
Finally, I know your black hearted friends know all about you. But they all know all about the others? All your friends know about me…One entity…This one entity knows a lot about many entities. I don’t think your closest friends would enjoy personal conversations posted here…Or personal experiences when they were younger. Or how a guy did something very bad to one of your friends. Or how….you know what…..I’m better then that….I’m better then you. Have a good weekend. J
now ur not making any sense?
mmmmm The poor soul???
Well I guese the poor soul would just have to learn, but until then I beleife that it will stay the poor soul. Well that is if you think so, Thats your view, maybe that poor soul thinks deferent. Maybe that soul can see something you dont see. But I can promiss you this, that one thing that the poor soul is trying or doing, with case ever, it will change the poor souls life for ever, even if the soul only get a glimps.
Wait Marra. Thanx for all the warnings that you give us all, but I strongly have to disagree with you. Your warnings means nothing as I cant see anything worth warning about.
And the past is the past. Yes sure every body has done things that wasn't right to do, I know I have and I wish I didn't but thats the past. So what ever info you have, I'm sure it would not make a deference.
And for all the loosers (users) out there, I cant believe how low you can go. With all my bad, I can proudly say that I never used and abused in my life, and are sure that I never will. I would never let my self go as low. Rather dei.
I dont understand marra's warnings eather grem.....sounds more like "preaching" to me.
I think alot of it comes down to our choice in men - if we go for a bad boy, he'll always be bad, a jock will always be infatuated with himself, a player will always play. If he shagged & ran before, what says he won't do so again? Check him out well, give it time and don't think sleeping with him is going to make him love you - it won't, not if he isn't already devoted to you. So I say don't take his bullshit! We deserve better!
Tina Couldn't agree more
I agree with u too.....make a shitload of sense.....dont hate the playa, hate the game! and if you dont wanna lose, dont play the game with him....coz ur gonna!
Hiya Grem, soz but from my point of view...Blogs and posts are not for me to make sense. It will be scary if you understood my posts…I actually don’t know what I’m talking about. You see I have this little chart in my drawer…and when I have time to post something…I close my eyes…turn 3 times in my chair…and put my finger down. And then the typing starts. Don't worry about my posts...I'm not pointing at anyone. I promise!
I know that when it comes to my typing tactics I can step over boundaries, and that sometimes…someone can take my posts personal. I am sorry for that. I truly am…but sometimes I just can’t take responsibilities for how different people perceive my posts. If I do that…I won’t have rest for my corrupted soul or my dumb, worm infected brain. I tell you what…I’ll try my extreme best to make more sense. I think it’s better for me and a lot people out there. But I’m afraid I’ll be preaching even more. That might be ill perceived. But hey…you will only know if you try.
But I detest fake…and detest backstabbing. Again I’m not pointing at anyone or recall an event in history. Just plainly saying that I post what I want. If a blogger can blog what he/she wants, surely I can give my honest and straightest opinion? If my post is unwanted…let me know. And I’m not trying to be funny or sarcastic… I believe sarcasm is the last symptom of a rotting brain. Wow…looking at my post I believe I don’t have a brain anymore…Please pity me.
And thank you for your opinion. Please have a good day and regards to our mutual friends!
HAHA shame you also need a brain MARRA?
Okay lets see, You dont pick on any one... Uhmmm.... If I recall it right.. you said on Boo's blog that you have only pick on Gremlin directly... so for that statement you are not hundred percent true.
And here you picked on the poor soul!
And yeah I enjoy reding your comments so every now and then. Its just now and then you do attact ppl. But hell, attack me, or my friends and I go to defence and attack back.
Dont take it personally, nothing against you.
Grem my friend, there's a difference between pointing to someone and picking on someone. I promise. Don't twist my word please. I know exactly what I did in my life since I was 4 years old. But thank you for POINTING out that part.
The attacks are not meant personally. I am sorry if it's perceived that way. I don't have a personality so...no chance of taking anything personally. I gave a freebie...So your shot count as one. *Wink*
I applaud your bravery. Please continue!
Enjoy the rest of the day!
HAHA Sorry Marra my mistake (Pikking)... LOL
Enjoy the rest of your day too
Chicks is dig en ouens is dose....dis die moral en dit sal altyd so bly!
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