Friday, October 06, 2006

Cheating is BAD!

Once a cheater, always a cheater... thats how the saying goes, is it true though? I dunno. I think (no offence to the guys, so chill grems!) that guys do it more often than woman, surveys have shown that. I guess its coz guys mostly cheat as they are after lust, whereas girls do it coz they are truelly inlove with the other person, Woman get their hearts involved too much.. guys are fine with one-night-stands, i dont know how though.. how do you share something, as beautiful as sex with somebody, and just completely forget about them the next day. I know many girls are also guilty when it comes to this, but hey, im a girl dammit, im trying to stand up for my sex here! LOL! Do you guys think, you could trust your girlfriend / boyfriend once they have cheated, or do you think its a lost cause?

31 comments:

Gremlin said...

Okay First Fings First.
Grems will Chill. hehe
Second Grems not man in this toppic Grems an alein, because if that how you describe men, I do not qualify!

Third, I believe in giving ppl chances to proof me wrong. Every person in my life only has a special number and after that it's good bye. So yeah If my girlfriend have cheated on me I would give her another chance but she will first have to get my trust back. Every one make's mistakes and some do accually learn and reallize that was the bigest mistake ever, so I think it's fair to give them another chance if the can get your trust back and have a valid reason, Not ALCHOL, thats not a reason thats an excuse!

Ppl do change, if you like it or not they do. So once a cheater always a cheater? No. But Once a cheater always more dificult to trust!

SaM-GiRL said...

Yeah, but alcohol is such a gooood excuse. heeheehee, you cant take that away!

Gremlin said...

No thats the only good excuse that ppl can think of. Yeah but I was drunk. Yeab but I had a drink to much. Yes its a fantastic excuse but I would not want to have an excuse but a reason.

SaM-GiRL said...

I drink because im depressed, and im depressed coz i drink.... good enough?

Guiver said...

Gremlin you sound like fuckin Opra. just shut the fuck up you wanker

Gremlin said...

hahahahah Sammy thats cool. You know you can drink as much as you want to. But if ya do something stupid don't blame the alchol. You've put it in your mouth, they didn't put you around them.

Signing off Opra!

Gremlin said...

Thanx Guiver. Your so nice!

you are really making my day with all these compliments.

Tash-Baby said...

Why dont you shut the f*ck up guiver!!!!!

KAL-EL said...

Hi Sam... cheating is wrong, who can you trust if you canot even trust your partner. But somtimes people make mistakes.. u see it starts when you find bump into someone that fits you so good... the vibe... there the emotional connection..there and the same interests ... there.. you sit back for a moment trying to say no but the persons whole being traps you in.. you are hooked so you decide to just spend time with them.. you prommice yourself that it will just be friends...

you get to know the person.. you are even more hooked on who they are.. you realize that they are even more of what you want in a partner.. you tell yourself again no no no no its wrong..

you start to fall in love with the person... you cant pull away anymore.. your whole world goes crazy. its upside down and you are confused.. the person shares with you that she/he is also inlove with you and that they feel the excact same feelings.

you start to feel emence pain and agony when you relize that you cannot have the real love of your life. 2 mutch love will kill you. when you cannot decide between the the 2 then you are torn between the lover and the love you leave behind. i cant go on this is 2 painful sorry.

etain_lavena said...

Just think about it, HOW would you feel being cheated on. Its the worst feeling in the world no one deserves that pain. You can try and make excuses but it is not right.
OK i Do agree everybody deserves a chance too redeem themselves, but do you really want to be with someone who cannot control their lust for others. But we all make mistakes, who are we to judge!

Gremlin said...

Yes Cheating is bad. And yes its not a good feeling to be cheated on, it rips out your heart and crush it on the floor. That I know, been there wel told her to leave too. She did not have a valid reason but just an excuse (Alchol). And then I were a reason for someone to cheat on her guy, and yes I am ashmed about it but it happend. Learned my leasson thou. But I have never cheated before, well haven't had alot of chances to do so. hehe

But I still believe that they deserve a second chance if they have a valid reason why they did it. I mean you cheat on your guy, now there have to be a reason why you did it, maybe your going thru a bad time in the relationship. Maybe there's something that really bodered you! Well there's a half of a reason but then you still have to have a reason why you cheated and not just talked about it, and then more you have to admit that you made an mistake and have to regain the trust, Whats a relationship with out trust?? Nothing!!

Okay well this is just my oppinion, I'm a reasonable person and always looking for ppl's good points and not there bad points. So you made a mistake, Tuff every one makes mistakes the question is just did you learn! I also think its wrong to fight, If you cant talk something out and have to fight about it, leave it that will always be there. I dont want to go thru my life always fighting! Do you? Okay I'm not talking about the litle fights where you fight now and after 30sec your kissy kissy. That will always be there.

SaM-GiRL said...

Yeah, fights are part of learning eachother, i think a relationship without a fight is abnormal, plus, theres no make-up sex! heeheehee

chix-rule said...

LOL! yeah, thats straight to the point

Titania said...
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Titania said...

The instant my partner cheats on me he is so out! And trying to cover it up he's just living a lie, an empty relationship. I know it sounds melodramatic, but I don't give second chances. I think women deserve as much credit as men for the sacrifices they make to be in a committed, exclusive relationship. If one partner is devoted but the other messes around, that's lack of respect & cannot be called real love!

Gremlin said...

I cant dissagree but also cant agree!
Have you ever made a mistake have you learned?

cathrine the gr8 said...

kal-el, i agree with you. most people dont go out to look for someone else it just happens. and its up to you to decide where to draw the line. its more difficult when theres a connection. i'l have learned never to judge until you have walked in that persons shoes. no one (i hope) goes out to deliberatly hurt there partner.

Napalm said...

Ek het eenkeer op my girl gecheat en nooit weer nie!

SaM-GiRL said...

EK TOG JY HET NOG NOOIT NIE NAPPIES!

Anonymous said...

Wys jy hoe luister j jou Msn HO.

Napalm said...

OH OH daai anonyous was ek...Jy raak seker deurmekaar omdat jy met so baie verskillende ouens chat.

SaM-GiRL said...

LOL, sigh............jys 'n asshole jou idiot! Buitendien, ekt vir jou gese jys op my top 200 lys. heeheehee.

Napalm said...

Well at least het ek n troetel naam...asshole!

cathrine the gr8 said...

Msn HO. ?????
someone pls explain what this means

Napalm said...

Nee ek grap maar net met haar tannie.

Sy het al die ouens op msn soos stertjies agter haar aan...

Napalm said...

Whooops daar blok Sam my!

cathrine the gr8 said...

mmmmm.... (gremmy se skryf styl)

Napalm said...

Nee tannie Gremmy het my al gelek! Hy dink ek is sy lollipop!

cathrine the gr8 said...

sjoe ek weet nie wat om te antwoord op die een nie... hoop dit was darem die moeite werd
LOL
dit klink vir my enige een wat gremmy kry is blerry gelukkig!! dis nou 'n man met 'n siel en diepte

SaM-GiRL said...

LOL! ekt jou nie geblok nie jou ass, en ek chat nie eers met baie ouens nie, net julle wat my close friends is!!! en ja cat, grems is great, ons moet 'n nice, down to earth plattelandse girl vir hom kry wat vir hom al die happiness gee wat hy verdien!

Napalm said...

Ek dink Grem kort n stripper girl!