I had a hectic time the last 2 weeks... It was Hennie's brothers wedding on Saturday, and all my close friends know that Im a little shy, and paranoid when it comes to these family gatherings, I really dont know why actually, I have this theory that everytime I go somewhere all the people are talking about me, and that the things theyre saying is ALL bad... but I decided this time i was going to go and actually enjoy myself... Ive been reading a book "Battlefield of the Mind" explaining that everything were afraid of, and stress about, is all in the mind, and we control our own minds so we can make the worry go away.. and I tried it, and by GOLLY GAWSH! it worked!! (hehe) You only have one life right, why not enjoy it, live every single day to the absolute maximum! My dad always tells me, that I shouldnt feel bad when people are talking about me, its when the talking stops that I have to start worrying, coz then I'm not important anymore! (Clever man my daddy) So thanks guys! The wedding was great! had a lovely time! Wish you were there!
Monday, October 23, 2006
Lifes a Journey....Ry hom in sy MOER in!
I had a hectic time the last 2 weeks... It was Hennie's brothers wedding on Saturday, and all my close friends know that Im a little shy, and paranoid when it comes to these family gatherings, I really dont know why actually, I have this theory that everytime I go somewhere all the people are talking about me, and that the things theyre saying is ALL bad... but I decided this time i was going to go and actually enjoy myself... Ive been reading a book "Battlefield of the Mind" explaining that everything were afraid of, and stress about, is all in the mind, and we control our own minds so we can make the worry go away.. and I tried it, and by GOLLY GAWSH! it worked!! (hehe) You only have one life right, why not enjoy it, live every single day to the absolute maximum! My dad always tells me, that I shouldnt feel bad when people are talking about me, its when the talking stops that I have to start worrying, coz then I'm not important anymore! (Clever man my daddy) So thanks guys! The wedding was great! had a lovely time! Wish you were there!
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Batlefield of the mind.... Thats a very good book...
Yeah I'm sure everybdy is talking about youwhen you enter a room, but I can garentee you its a hole lot more good than bad.... How can someone say bad things about you??? Just not possible...
The mind is more powerful than you think, and yes all is in the mind...
Eish grems! Thank you. Yeah, it is a great book, it really makes you wonder.... very beautiful, there are a few nice quotes in it as well.
I agree, have read that book as well. Must say, there arent many things that please me in life, but i got my full satisfaction out of that book....
Its all in the mind!
HAHA Naps thats a deferent topic....
sam get yourself the book "the four agreements" it is life changing and it works.
rule 1) be impeccable with your word
2) dont take anything personally
3) dont make assumptions
4) always do your best
dit het my totaal verander - die grootste een waarmee ek sukkel is
Dont MAKE ASSUMPTIONS!!
Klink na 'n goeie een, wie is die author? Ek is moeg om so 'n pisgat te wees, dis tyd dat ek bietjie uit my dop uitkom! dammit! lol
DIS
DON MIGUEL RUIZ
SAM REGTIG DIT SAL JOU LEWE VERANDER EN JOU STERK MAAK. EK HET VIR POP OOK GESE SY MOET MY BOEK LEES.
Vir wat gaan jy op sulke kursusse naps? jy lyk nie soos die tipe wat dit eintlik nodig het nie? of hoe?
I have to agree with naps ...
Heart an mind is where it's at..
My points that I don't give a shyte what ppl think of me ... I'll even engourage them to hate more.
Naps what is the course called? my friend went on a "life enrichment course" is it the same?
WHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
HAHAHA Naps, you taste nice, very nice. Have to do that again this time I'll just leave DW's feet alone... LOL
Uhmmm yeah I can say I'm the unlucky poor fellow who also seen Naps naked... LOL
Yeah have to do a msn party again, Darn I still don't know how we fitted every one in the house thou...
That Battlefield of the Mind book sounds good. I don't think I really need to read it, cos every1 talks good things about me anyway.
Hehehe, eish.
@ Naps ...
thx bro, i'll do so ...
ps: lets rather not talk about the camp fire thing
ps: lets rather not talk about the camp fire thing
Hmm, that sounds sumthing like "I remember once at bandcamp..."
SO true ..
I'll always remember our "drunk" stories to tell
haha very close garretto
HAHAAHHAAHHAHA !!!
WHAT !!!!
no no no no no ....
GTI 180 forever ... what happened
Haha, I just don't stress at such gathering because I'm friendly & comfortable with myself and I don't believe they have anything to criticize because I've done them no wrong. And if they do say stuff and it's negative, they're sad for wasting their time looking for niggles in someone they don't know.
So chill out girl, you know your qualities and if they don't know you, they don't know squat about you & should mind their own business.
It's only people you've had bad experiences that might have things to say - and you need to make a conscious decision whether they matter or not.
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